Change is highly popular – but only at a distance. For example, we tend to really like change in others. ….. “You know, he really should…” ….. “She’d be so much better off if only…” ….. “Why don’t they DO something about…” ….. “The government really ought to make them…” But that’s change for them. [...]
How defensive are you? When a friend says something that touches a sensitive spot in you (but you have no idea why), do you pause for a moment to mark that experience for further study? Or do you simply blast back at the offending person? Clearly, we’re sometimes protecting ourselves from things that are not [...]
