Learning to understand and master life’s challenges is usually a matter of finding the right perspective… the viewpoint from which all the pieces are visible and their relationships obvious. Until we gain that proper perspective, we keep on misunderstanding, trying one inadequate solution after another, which of course fail to work. But what if someone [...]

When we’re trying to build our motivation and strengthen our persistence, there’s one easy, dead-simple test that’ll always tell us how we’re doing. It’s the gaps… And yet, even though this is a crystal clear indicator of our current effectiveness, we often avoid looking at it, and even go to great lengths to avoid seeing [...]