Self help is not mysterious. It’s not even difficult. It all boils down to a few commonsense things. Once you know these few things, there’s not much excuse for ever feeling helplessness, frustration, anger or fear ever again. First principle: Know what you want. Second principle: Know why you want it. With those two facts, [...]
When the mess hits the fan, what’s your standard reaction? Do you worry, obsess and panic? Or perhaps you don’t even wait for things to go wrong. Is worry your constant state of mind… just because you’re convinced something WILL go wrong? If you often find yourself with an oversupply of anxiety and frustration in [...]
Harmony is a good thing. And as human matters go, it’s a lot easier to reach than some goals… such as perfection. Even though harmony has varying degrees of attainment, however, it’s relatively easy to know when you have some and when you don’t. Anytime your nerves are consistently calm and your satisfaction with your [...]
These days, my emails bring me waves – floods – of launch announcements. And they all seem to come with free (but long and time-gobbling) videos, fortified by earth-shaking (cleverly retitled but same-ol’-same-ol’) systems. In a recent one-week period, I received invitations to watch free videos totaling nearly 18 hours. That’s insane. And that’s when [...]
Regular contributor Peter Vajda has a talent for asking good questions. In fact, he usually closes each of his articles with queries that help us focus our attention more clearly on the issues he raises. This week is different. This time, Peter mostly skips the commentary and moves directly to some especially powerful… Questions for [...]
Okay, I admit it. Sometimes I overindulge in information. I collect books that may or may not get completely read. And it’s even worse with ebooks – I currently have hundreds them (plus multi-gigabytes of MP3s and downloadable videos) clogging up my external hard disk. They always sound so important – so essential to have [...]
Blessing or tribulation? The things that occur in your life – the events, people and experiences that the Universe brings to you – may light up your life, or they may light the fires of resentment and indignation. Ironically, the only difference is the attitude you bring to the exchange. Here’s a little piece from [...]
Back in the States for a visit last year, I was talking with a lady I’d just met. When I mentioned that my wife and I live in Thailand where the weather is always warm, the cost of living is low and the people are extremely friendly, my new acquaintance remarked, “Wow, you are so [...]
My grandmother used to always talk about “someday, when my ship comes in.” She constantly read New Thought material, which these days is called Law of Attraction. But her ship never came in, and she died the same way she lived – dirt poor. She was waiting for the natural laws of the Universe to [...]
Let me ask you this – have you been worried lately about running out of problems? No… I didn’t think so. Most folks have a fairly plentiful supply. Some might even say they’re endless. But whether your problems are limitless or merely overabundant, one thing is for sure. Those problems almost always look like their [...]



