Of course you have goals. That’s why you’re here. Things you want to accomplish… skills you’d like to strengthen… lifestyle to expand.

As you work toward these things, it’s good to have someone you can ask for pointers, a bit of help, or maybe a friendly ear… but you don’t need the usual guru BS.

That’s why BullsEye Living is here. To give you just what you need, when you need it, for your best personal growth. So settle back, dig in and explore. And if there’s something you don’t find here, please do let me know. It’s easy to contact me anytime.

Oh, and feel free to post your comments below any article you like (or dislike). That’ll help me better understand what you want and need.

Cheers from sunny Japan,
Charles

In this age of manic communicating and hyper-activity, we hear many of our success gurus advising us to “take massive action.”

Yes, that can be good advice… but what kind of action? Unfortunately, many of us get it wrong… then spend most of our waking hours in reactive, low-quality activities aimed at simply trying to keep up. It’s not even the Joneses we’re trying to keep up with anymore. Now we’re just trying to keep up, period. This leads to very little thought going into the actions we choose.

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Are you really going to accomplish the next thing you decide to do?

Now, I don’t know what your “next thing” — your next goal — might be. It could be a business goal, or a family objective. It may be connected with inner growth, or with your physical health.

But whatever it is, whatever you promise yourself that you’ll do, are you actually going to follow through? Will you keep on till you reach completion?

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“So when would be a good time for us to start on your coaching?” Linda asked. Linda was a well-experienced relationship coach interviewing Ann, a potential new client.

“Well… first I’d really like to think about it for a few days,” Ann told her.

Linda gave an ironic smile. This answer was a common one. Many people, she had found, don’t like stepping forward and making decisions on the spot. In fact, they don’t really like making decisions at all, and they’ll often go to great lengths to avoid them.

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No relationship is exclusively one-way. When any two people interact, the influences flow in both directions.

So if there’s someone who consistently irritates you, peeves you, and just generally gets under your skin, know this: you are almost certainly part of your problem.

Guest columnist Peter Vajda returns this time with some very practical suggestions to help you uncover your own contributions to the prickly relationships in your life.

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“The Best Advice I Ever Got.” I don’t usually pay much attention to the financial magazines, but the headline on this one was too good to pass up, so I bought the May 12 issue of Fortune, and I’m glad I did.

This article presents quotes from 19 high achievers, or as Fortune calls them, “accomplished people.” The 19 include Larry Page of Google, Michael Bloomberg mayor of NYC, Indra Nooyi of Pepsico, Tina Fey actress and comedienne and Tony Robbins who everybody knows.

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As you move yourself forward toward increased success, if you’re doing your work right, you’re going to meet expanding opportunities to serve a wider community, market or audience.

And at each stage of that growth, one side of you is going to dig in its heels and protest desperately, with self-talk such as:

“Who am I to do that? I don’t belong in that role. After all, I’ve got this and this and this wrong with me. And besides, I’m not really interested in doing all that.”

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Wendy Piersall is the owner of Sparkplugging.com, a blog that literally outgrew its first name.

A couple of years back, Wendy began a new blog, mainly as a hobby, but within three months her new “hobby” was so successful that she knew two things. First, this was turning into a profit pulling business. Second, she would soon have to change the name.

That initial name? EMoms at Home. But it wasn’t long before the readership included many men, as well as single women with no kids. Now, logic alone tells us that you can only attract that kind of rapidly growing and widely varied readership by giving good advice and good, solid business how-to.

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Seems like we’re constantly struggling for better understanding. Understanding of ourselves; of our problems; of the people around us.

So how’s that working out for you?

While it may be comforting to have a better handle on what’s going on all about you, and awareness is almost always better than being oblivious, understanding may be seriously overrated as a tool for resolving problems.

Here’s a little secret about problems: the cause is almost never where you think it is. I’ll say more about that in a second, but here’s the point. Knowing more and more about your problem is filling your mind with facts about a symptom rather than a cause. It’s massive misdirection which can produce amazingly few results for the energy expended.

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Once in a while I get an email that really makes me think more deeply than usual. This one came this morning from from Mark (not his real name), who is reading my book Command More Luck. He said:

I am currently focusing my mind on riches in order to manifest them. Although I do believe that this does bring success into a person’s life, the lunatic asylums are full of people who firmly believe that they are millionaires or rulers of great kingdoms.

It is said that genius is akin to madness. My question to you is: What is the discriminating factor?

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Most people’s affirmations don’t get past the end of their nose.

Mine never used to. There was a point in my mid-thirties when I had read so many books, with so little results, that I finally and firmly determined to grab my affirmations and MAKE them work.

I set up a work space, got a 3-ring notebook, a stack of paper and a fistful of pens. Then I sat down and started. I carefully designed an affirmation which, I was sure, covered all the details of what I desired. And I wrote it out.

A thousand times.

Then another thousand. And three thousand more after that. A total of five thousand times I wrote out that long, glowing sentence.

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In this, my newest class, I’ll show you strategies and techniques you can use the same day to start clearing the “stuff” from your mind and return it to its original condition — filling yourself with natural confidence, self-respect and self-esteem.

RESET is a simple, direct way to stop the junk running in the back of your head. It will enable you to reclaim your natural power over your own thoughts and actions.

Now — you have a way to kick out the negative “stuff” that runs in the back of your mind. You know the stuff I mean… self-doubt instead of self-esteem, uncertainty instead of confidence, self-sabotage instead of success, fear instead of boldness. The stuff you learned early and deep. The stuff that causes virtually all your problems… now learn to access your RESET button, and begin reclaiming authority over what happens in your mind.

This Tele-Clinic presents strategies and techniques you will use to RESET your mind back to its original specifications. Once you’ve learned this, you’ll be able to use it any time you notice negative junk sneaking back in, trying to re-pollute your thinking.

Click to Find your RESET button — start clearing things up fast.

Cheers from warm and smiling Thailand,
Charles

It happens fairly often. About one customer in 100 steals from me.

But I’m not alone. Virtually every person I know who sells information products says they have the same experience.

No matter how good your product, no matter how much value you pile on, about one-to-two percent of your customers will order your product, download it, then immediately request a refund. And usually there’s only a delay of a few minutes between download and refund demand.

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For Further Information Contact:
Charles Burke (+66) 849-49-7644

Hundreds of thousands of websites are hacked annually, causing untold upset and anger — but not in every case. When one website was hit recently, the owner called it good luck and decided to celebrate.

“Ironically,” said the website’s owner, Charles Burke, an American author living in Thailand, “they chose to hack a website that sells ‘Command More Luck,’ a book that teaches how to turn ‘bad luck’ into good luck. So I decided to use this hacking as a case study, showing exactly how any situation can mean good luck.”

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There are things you won’t do. You won’t willingly beat up a helpless person, abuse a baby, lie to your priest or minister (about most things), or commit murder.

But will you keep something that’s not yours?

Think carefully before you answer because this COULD develop into a trick question.

In today’s guest article, Ophelia Nicholson in her excellent Law of Attraction Blog dares you to take a second long look at the limits you’re putting on how the Universe answers your requests. Now, I can almost guarantee this article is going to rile some of my readers - maybe you. Read it and tell me what you think.

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It’s infuriating, right? Somebody makes a promise to you, and then they break it. Or they agree to do something but then blow it off like it doesn’t even matter.

I’m not talking about an occasional can’t-be-helped situation beyond reasonable control, like late air flights, or a wreck tying up traffic. I’m talking about serial agreement breakers. The people who don’t much care whether they keep their promises or not.

Unfortunately, that person might be you. And if it is, you may not think you need the following article, but you should. It explains one common reason none of your relationships is working well.

Today’s contributor, Peter Vajda, is a Well-BEing coach who specializes in workplace relationships. But his advice fits every area of human relations — family, friendships, clubs — anywhere people interact and disappoint others. Find out how to avoid being the bad guy again and again.
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Here’s a story I think you’re going to like.

What do you do when someone you love is sliding rapidly toward death? You want the doctors to take the measures that’ll save their life, but nearly everyone else is convinced it’s hopeless, so they won’t agree to the procedure.

What DO you do?

Just shrug your shoulders helplessly and back away? Start your grieving before your family member is even gone?

My friend Alan told me that about two weeks ago, his father-in-law was suffering from a life-threatening infection. He needed surgery urgently, but the doctors were reluctant.

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Although the details vary, there’s really only one way to influence the future — the active and vivid imagining of events.

If we’re imagining desirable events, we call this attraction work, doing affirmations, praying, doing requests or programming our minds.

Whichever term you use, this is the method you’ve been trying to master for some time now.

But we also have one other very common name for this process. We also call it worry.

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My offbeat sale (the Hacking Revenge Celebration Sale) is now easing into its last day of fun.

If this were a regular sale, right about now all the “marketing gurus” would have me pouring on the pressure, piling on additional bonuses, and bludgeoning you with a river of urgent, last-minute emails to order, order, order before it’s all over.

Well, frankly, I think you’re as fed up with those pressure tactics as I am. (Is ANYTHING you can order on the web really THAT serious?)

So instead of tactics and pressure, here’s something that’s becoming increasingly rare on the Internet… some respect.

HERE ARE THE FACTS — in simple, non-inflated terms.

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A reader recently told me:

I don’t want to change anything… except the results I’m getting

She went on to say, “I don’t dislike myself or have any areas I particularly want to change. I just want some of the things that happen in my life to be different.”

What she doesn’t get is this:

Everything that happens to us IS different.

Huh?

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